Many young ladies, despite their regular intimate life, cannot achieve orgasm, but there are lucky women who can cum several times during one sexual intercourse. What is their secret?

Perhaps they are the chosen ones of the gods or have arrived on the sinful earth from another planet? Of course not. The secret of multi-orgasm lies in the technique of having sex. It’s just that the lucky ladies got really good lovers. 

Kim Anami

sex expert

I had a client who consistently had 30-40 orgasms a night with her man. However, such a case is rather an exception to the rule. But 2-5 peaks in a row is a very real indicator for every woman.

I will not once again prove to you the health benefits of sex. Moreover, we discussed this in a separate article. Today I want to address first of all to men. Guys, I’ll tell you how to get your girlfriend to multi-orgasm . If a beautiful lady is reading this text now, I recommend that she slip these tips to her boyfriend or spouse. 
 

1. Get her drunk

Fatigue and accumulated stress often become obstacles to true bliss. The easiest way to relax is to swell a little . I think at this point moralists and ardent healthy lifestyle activists will be eliminated and I will continue to broadcast for the remaining adequate public.

Alcohol in small amounts will relieve stress and allow problems to be pushed into the background. It is important to choose the right dose so that your partner does not fall asleep during intercourse. If a girl drinks very rarely, then a glass of wine will be enough until the desired condition is reached. And if the princess is used to whipping buckets of vodka, then a bottle of alcohol will not be enough for you.

2. Add romance

You can’t do without vanilla, because even the most masculine lesbian will melt from a cute bunch of violets. Therefore, I recommend planting vanilla from the very beginning of the evening. Look your mistress faithfully in the eyes, sigh languidly, chirp tender words. Banal rose petals on fresh linen and candles placed in the bedroom still work for the benefit of the intimate life of mankind. To summarize the above in one phrase – act like a teenage movie hero.

3. Warm it up well

Once again, I’m looking for a worn-out record about the significance of the prelude. Set out to drive her to a frenzy? Then do not whine that you will have to spend at least an hour to warm up your partner properly.

Debbie Herbenick

sex expert

Women, unlike men, do not have a refractory period (a period of non – excitability after orgasm, approx.) , So the second wave of pleasure in them can come just 1 minute after the first. However, the girls’ arousal phase is smoother and more extended in time. Having begun sexual intercourse, without waiting for maximum readiness, they risk not reaching orgasm at all. 

The right strategy will yield excellent results. There can be no forbidden techniques in war. Use all the arsenal you have, from massage to cunnilingus and molten wax.   

4. Talk a lot

Women love with their ears and this is not idle chatter. When your sword is in its scabbard, do not shut up for a minute. Say whatever comes into your head (provided that these are pleasant words). Compliment her curves, whisper compliments, and more. Of course, you don’t need to memorize erotic poems, but you get the general message.
 

5. Diversify your stimulation

Your manipulations should not be limited to the reciprocating movements of the penis. Only the pump enjoys the monotonous stroke of the piston. Combine several types of stimulation depending on the position you choose. For example, in doggy style, you can combine frictions with the penetration of a finger into the anus. In the position “Woman on top” – caress the lower abdomen, breasts, nipples. In missionary – slightly increase the pressure by changing the angle of introduction and rubbing the pubis against the clitoris.
 

6. Don’t get carried away

The hardest part is getting her to her first orgasm. The root of all evil lies in the unreliability of the male root (forgive the tautology). The representative of the stronger sex must have remarkable restraint so as not to get carried away by the process.

Kim Anami

sex expert

Male endurance is critical on the path to female pleasure. The average duration of frictions , depending on age, fits into the range from 2 to 7 minutes. Therefore, the guy needs to master the techniques of self-control.

The answer to the question of how to last longer can be found in this article. Also, you should look here in order to learn about the different types of female orgasm and understand how to provoke them.   

7. Add lubricant

Many women experience vaginal dryness. And here’s what it has to do with:

Debbie Herbenick

sex expert

After the first orgasm, the release of natural lubrication practically stops. The activity of the Bartholin glands decreases. Slippery fluid may not be enough for painless intercourse to continue.

An unpleasant phenomenon is especially typical for slender girls and women who have recently become mothers. It is better for men to play it safe and buy a jar of lubricant . Without being distracted from the main action, add lubricant as needed.

8. Keep it idling

If you want to achieve multi-orgasm , then remember – you have got picky horses. The first peak is over, and the next one will still have to sweat. Don’t let your partner lose her sense of arousal, keep her idling. At the same time, the emphasis on incentives should shift.

Ian Kerner

sex therapist

After she finishes, give her clit a break. The fact is that after orgasm, the sensitivity of this organ increases significantly. Any touch brings a woman more pain than pleasure. However, do not stop, continue to work on other erogenous zones: breasts, perineum, vaginal opening.

9. Create a new route

Another way to exhaust your partner is to juggle in pleasurable places. The first orgasm is best and easiest to cause with masterful cunnilingus , the second – with vaginal sex, the third – with anal sex , and on the fourth, attract heavy artillery and try to make her cum from nipple stimulation. Each time a woman’s response to affection will increase. 

10. Forget about your ego

Comrades, tell me why you started reading this article? Do you want to please your beloved or to amuse your vanity? The first is commendable, the second is damn bad. Having decided at all costs to cause multi-orgasm , please be patient. Forget about your own needs and desires. Do not at any time ask: “Well, what have you finished?” or: “How many times have you had.” It only knocks down the mood for sex.