We talked with Barbara about sex. She had an intimate experience with both men and women. We tried to figure out which option is better, and how games with partners of different sexes differ. And we are not about obvious things, but about an approach to proximity.
Barbara is 27 years old. She was married, and then left her husband for a friend. Free now. The girl loves vivid communication and without hesitation answers any piquant questions.
What sex is more interesting – with men or women?
This is a difficult question. These are different sensations. And this is connected not only with gender, but with the character of a person. With women, it lasts longer. With them, all sex is from eating and sharing a movie to sexual intercourse. Every touch is already sex.
Men are different. Always flirt first. They do not perceive dinner, a walk for sex. For them, this is communication, and the plexus of hands or kisses is something incomprehensible.
If you want sensuality, I choose a woman. She is able to plunge you into a constant feeling of pleasure and sex. If you want detente, a shorter story, then men are attracted.
So men are less hardy in sex? Is it faster with them?
Also not true. With them all more clearly. You can always understand where “he” ends and “we” begin. There is no “sticking together of lives”, each in itself, although it is high.
It doesn’t work out with a woman. Suddenly, everything is together, everything is twisted into a complex lump. And if you want a relationship, then it’s great. But if you don’t really count on serious things, it’s hard to defend the borders.
How is sex with a woman?
It all starts with kisses, as with everyone. And then we undress each other and give hands and tongue pleasure.
Is it mutual? Or someone gives, but someone accepts?
It is always different. Someone likes fingers, someone oral sex. There are those who do not like to “lick”, but smartly wielding their hands. Roles are blurred, more often this happens to me. But I remember my first experiments with women, and there I just “accepted”, I was not able to do anything at all.
And with whom more pleasure – with M or F?
I do not know. This is also different. The matter is not in the presence of a member, it is easy to replace it with a vibrator. Pleasure is a complex process. Sometimes it’s nice to fall asleep with a fragile girl, it’s nice to feel her delicate smell. And also to understand that your worlds are similar, and she feels the world just like me.
But sometimes the male shoulder seems more reliable. And from his huge hands, from his arms you go crazy.
It’s not about body shape, not about sex. The case is in relation to a person.
And with whom are sex toys used, with girls or guys?
Of course, with the girls. They are always ready for something new. Any vibrating little thing is a delight. A man may not like it, not everyone can even offer it.
What toys do girls choose? Prefer strapons?
No. This is some kind of misconception that everyone “has” each other, like men. No, strapon is uncomfortable for me. No matter how you fix it, it moves or rubs. Therefore, I choose something phallic in shape, which is convenient to hold in my hands. And with vibration.
I love vibration myself, and I understand how to give pleasure with it. How to start, how to play, but not to let finish, or vice versa, to give an orgasm many, many times. These are magical devices, and girls have them. For many.
What is your favorite sex toy?
A toy for what? For games with a girl or for masturbation?
I now have a Volta from Fun Factory at home . I am very pleased with her. I like to lie with her in the bathroom. This is for me personally. Together with the girl I love Satisfaire . With a wide head to suit everyone. By the way, I’ve bought one already 3 times, gave it to my friends. I tried a “magic wand” with a man – a massager like in porn. Cool, of course, but sometimes the vibration is too strong.