Sex “hastily” in the minds of our contemporaries is associated either with a sudden outburst of passion, or with a lack of satisfaction. As a rule, it results in a simple physiological discharge. A slow intimate act, the number of fans of which is steadily increasing, has completely different tasks.

What is a slow sexual act?

Tantric sex means the gradual establishment of contact with yourself and with your beloved, acceptance of yourself in this act of love and the release of a powerful sexual energy flow. This energy subsequently affects the rest of life.

The frantic rhythm of modern life dictates the fashion for getting more orgasms without focusing on quality. But do not forget that tantric sex has a number of advantages over quick copulation:

• 1. Focus on the process. Partners pay attention to each stage of intimacy, rather than obsessing over the quick completion of the process. 
• 2. Striving for satisfaction. Lovers strive to give each other maximum pleasure, realizing that the partner’s pleasure directly affects their own. 
• 3.Element of the game. This implies unhurried, free responses to the call of the body instead of clear regulations, the order of actions during intimacy. 
• 4. Significant increase in sensitivity , multiple intensification of sensations. The reason is that when partners are open to feelings during intimacy, they lose the need to “work for the result,” which men often sin. Sexual intercourse is no longer a stressful factor, turning into a path to relaxation and an act of creativity. According to French sexologists, the practice of tantric sex can bring even long-term relationships back to life.
• 5. Leisurely sex is more enjoyable. With regular practice, you can learn to control your orgasm. The secret of this technique is to maintain a highly arousal state for a long period of time, leading to a full-body orgasm and almost euphoria. 

How to properly prepare for tantric sex

Long-term sex requires some preparation. The environment plays a very important role – smell, sensation, color. You need pleasant bedding, unobtrusive aromas, light music or complete silence – everything that will contribute to maximum relaxation of partners. You also need to organize your time – it will take a lot. It all begins, oddly enough, with visual contact – sometimes a look can excite more than touch. You should carefully study the body of your partner with a glance, not forgetting to control your breathing. According to the American sexologist, proper breathing exercises can prolong the time of a man’s orgasm. To achieve such a result, a man, having felt a pre-orgasmic state, needs to make deep, calm breathing movements, while simultaneously relaxing every muscle. With the correct execution of such exercises, the duration of an orgasm, instead of ten seconds, may well increase to thirty.  

The intricacies of slow sex

With leisurely, slow sex, you need to pay attention to parts of the body that you usually don’t have time for. For example, you can try to do a leisurely massage or spend a long time caressing some area of ​​your partner . This area can be stroked, kneaded, tickled, licked, teased with hands or special objects. 

It is important to remember that such interesting touches are important not only for women – men, along with the fair sex, need additional gentle caress. It will not be superfluous to record your feelings and subsequently discuss them with your partner.

You don’t need to restrain your emotions , no matter whether you want to cry or laugh – trust will only increase thanks to genuine emotions. Usually people enjoy quick, sharp frictions. With leisurely sex, you can feel the pleasure of the very process of uniting two bodies, so you need not rush, but enjoy the moments of intimacy with each other as long as possible.

It should be remembered that the practice of tantric love does not exclude a quick release of passion from life. Sometimes it is necessary to throw out your sexual energy right here and now, but the alternation of fast and slow sex in life brings variety, gives very pleasant experiences.