Recently, on the sado- mazo games do not speak only lazy. Fiction and educational books are widely sold, films about submission and domination are shown in cinemas, musicians are releasing clips with quite unambiguous content. I can’t say for sure what it is – a changeable fashion that will pass after a couple of years or a long-term trend that is a stepping stone on the path of total emancipation.

Sexologists boil down the unprecedented interest in BDSM culture to a few root causes. Firstly, the modern world is spinning at an insane speed, people are plagued by doubts and a feeling of uncertainty every day, so they so want to keep at least some moments of life in tight-knit gloves. Secondly, the sexual revolution and the departure from the stereotypical perception of intimacy led to the popularization of the movement. Today, the scope of what is permissible has expanded significantly, sexual intercourse is no longer perceived exclusively as a tool for procreation, so why not introduce elements of simulated violence into the bedrooms. Third, a long-term relationship needs a periodic shake-up. Finally, gender roles are so intermingled that without ropes and gags, it’s hard to prove your masculinity.

We have repeatedly peeped through the keyhole for couples who prefer tough love. Before the practical implementation of the poses presented in this article, I strongly recommend that you make an excursion into BDSM and get acquainted with the Kama Sutra from the work of E.L. James, which has become a byword in all the townspeople.    
 

1. Horse in a stall

Position description. Pop into your grandmother’s attic and requisition a Soviet-style bed with a high steel back from an old lady. The boyfriend lies on his back, the partner shackles his hands to the cold lattice of the metal headboard. She saddles her lover and rides towards an explosive orgasm. Why you will like it. There is nothing hotter than seeing a man horny and powerless. He is not able to touch the desired partner’s body or his genital organ in order to somehow relieve the growing sexual tension. The girl has the right to tease him, delaying the moment of intimacy, the sweet flour will give both lovers a mind-blowing release. 

 

2. Torture by tenderness

Position description. You will need a stable chair and a clothesline. A naked man sits on a seat, his hands are tied from behind (for greater reliability, it is preferable to braid the back with a rope). The girl climbs from above and moves at an ideal pace for herself. Why you will like it. Your nipples will constantly loom in front of the guy, he will not be able to resist biting or kissing them. Invite your boyfriend to spread his legs wider, take a feather duster, and walk over his crotch. Play interrogation, believe me, erotic tickling unleashes the tongue of even taciturn spies. 

 

3. Gripped in a vice

Position description. Yes, this is not quite a position, but I could not resist the temptation to include nipple clamps in the selection. Use devices in any of the proposed options and your games will reach a qualitatively new level. Fasten the clothespins on solid beads, slightly pull the chain in parallel with the frictions, and you will understand why I mentioned them in the article. Why you will like it. Many people mistakenly believe that such toys cause unbearable pain, but this is pure nonsense. Sex shops sell clips of varying stiffness, some models are equipped with a pressure regulator. Choose the right device and comprehend previously unknown feelings. 

 

4. Chained missionary

Position description. The girl lies on her back, her hands are fixed high above her head, they are tightly handcuffed to the love bed. You can raise the degree of passion and use another pair of metal shackles to secure her beautiful legs. Why you will like it. Some lovers love the missionary position for the ability to make eye contact. In this version of the classic body position, you will maintain a sense of closeness and add sensual play to it. 

 

5. To the leg, Rex

Position description. The partner is dressed in sexy fishnet garter stockings and black high-heeled shoes. The man wears only a strict collar with a leash. She proudly makes a circle of honor around the apartment, and the boyfriend humiliatedly follows his beloved on all fours. The girl sits on the sofa, spreads her legs wide and orders the slave to kiss her most secret places. Why you will like it. The paramount moment in performing the “To the foot, Rex” position is not so much the denouement as the background. It is important to prepare mentally, to get used to the chosen roles. A man must understand that he is a faithful dog, and a woman is his mistress. A look at the femme fatale from below will add piquancy and sharpness. 

 

6. Naughty girl

Position description. The girl becomes in the knee-elbow position, slightly bends her chest to the forearms, while protruding her ass. The guy takes the flogger and slaps his mistress on the buttocks, holding her on the lower back. Why you will like it. The concept of crime and punishment is at the heart of BDSM culture. Instead of sorting things out with scandals, it is much more productive to transfer the accumulated anger and resentment to the bedroom. If you screw up and the guy is sulking at you, then offer him to spank the “naughty girl”. You will see that there will be no trace of the quarrel. 

 

7. Lassoed stallion

Position description . Please do not confuse it with the number 1 of the collection. The main difference lies in giving the partner more freedom. His hands are not as firmly secured as in the case of handcuffs. If desired, a man can massage the rider’s breasts, but he will not be able to hug her by the waist or hips.

Why you will like it. You often arrange sado maso plays, and in the prevailing number of representations partner dominates? Then it is advisable to introduce this position into intimate games as a reward. Usually a boyfriend is not allowed to let go of his arms, but tonight he will get a carrot instead of a whip. 

8. The queen is in captivity

Position description. The guy is pulled straight along the line, his wrists are fixed above his head. The girl sits on her lover’s face in a reverse cowgirl pose and gets the most delicate cunnilingus . Why you will like it. Undivided power is intoxicating as hell. The partner uses her lover to satisfy her own whims. She disregards his opinion and pathetic attempts to protest. The man plays the role of a soulless sex toy. 

 

9. Slave Izaura

Position description. The partner will need to spend an hour or two mastering the clever knotting techniques. Read a couple of treatises on shibari and braid the body of your beloved with a rough linen rope. The tighter the loops, the more blood will flow to the skin, and the more clearly your partner will respond to your caresses. Why you will like it. Perhaps the habitual intercourse in this position is extremely difficult, but oral sex is simply mesmerizing. Before using the slave’s mouth, I recommend experimenting with tactile sensations. Use ice cubes, warm massage oils, silk fabrics, in a word, any objects that your imagination dictates.   

 

10. Blind passion

Position description. The guy is not lying on his back, in front of his eyes there is an opaque thick bandage. The partner’s hands should not touch the girl. The partner goes down to the loins and gently slides her lips over the head of the penis, drenches the trunk with a breath of heat and then plunges the penis up to the testicles deep into the throat. Why you will like it . Perception blowjob blindfolded much effektenne for both lovers. So in a man, the lack of visual images sharpens the sense of touch, and a woman discards false modesty and decides to test theoretical information gleaned from porn films and women’s magazines on a partner. 

11. Ugly boy

Position description. Mirroring number 6 of our list. The boyfriend lies down on his stomach. The girl sits on top, turning her face to his buttocks. In the hands of the partner padll . She violently bangs her partner’s elastic buttocks with a flat racket. Why you will like it. In my humble opinion, comments are superfluous. Beloved men shake our nerves every day, why we cannot recoup and slightly punish the scoundrels. Just don’t be too zealous, remember, this is primarily an erotic game, and only then an act of vendetta. 

 

12. Hands behind the ankles

Position description . The partner lies on her stomach, pulls the heels to the butt. Her hands are handcuffed so that her wrists are fixed to her ankles. The partner gently sneaks into the center of the structure, enters the penis into the moist bosom and reciprocates.

Why you will like it. In this position, depending on the degree of bending in the lower back, three main erogenous zones become available: chest, clitoris and neck. Due to the O-shape of the body, blood rushes to the pelvic organs, which greatly enhances the orgasm. 

13. Kiss your feet, miss

Position description. Where are we without prelude? That’s right – nowhere. A tiny dose of perversion never hurts. Let the partner kiss each toe on the partner’s leg, run a sharp tongue along the arch of the foot, lick the heel. Why you will like it . A foot fetishist is hiding in every man . Why do you think they stare at girls in short skirts ?! There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Imagine your boyfriend worships you so much that he is ready to kiss the sand, like in a popular song from the late 80s. 

14. Wax lot

Position description . Tying in the “Wax Lot” does not even smell, but this is all the salt. The girl should lie still while the partner pours melted wax on her. The slightest tremor will entail satisfaction, and which one – come up with yourself.

Why you will like it. With the help of eroticism, household chores can be played out like a lottery. First, you “bully” your partner, and then he over you. As a result, the hateful washing of dishes is laid on the shoulders of the spouse for the next week, and in return you prepare his favorite thin pancakes with cottage cheese. And everyone is happy! 

15. Castle Prisoner Oh

Position description. You will have to slightly add specialized fixtures to the bedroom. Insert a strong ring into the ceiling, stretch a strong rope through it, complete this creation with a pair of handcuffs. The partner stands under the hanging shackles, the man shackles her and, by manipulating the rope, pulls the prisoner’s hands to the ceiling as much as possible. The girl throws her leg on her partner’s thigh, and they have intercourse while standing. Why you will like it. The mistress is forced to spend almost the entire sexual intercourse on tiptoe in an extremely defenseless position. The guy slowly explores the most secluded corners of the girl’s body, even peeks where the entrance was prohibited. She is wholly and completely owned by her Master. Do not hold back sensual impulses, open up new erotic horizons. Let the world be in chaos, but your bedroom will remain the only island of stability in which everyone plays their assigned role.