Guys always want to seem so bold, brutal and brave. But as soon as it comes to experiments in sex, they get lost and hide their eyes in embarrassment. Girls are much easier to innovate in intimate life. While some of us don’t agree immediately, curiosity still takes its toll. How to persuade him to experiment with a product from a sex shop?  

10 tips to persuade your boyfriend to use sex toys

Each pair has its own characteristics, so it is important to adapt all the tips to a specific person. It only takes one method to start trying new things in bed. How to persuade him?

1. Find the right moment

If you and your boyfriend have been living together for some time, then most likely you were able to identify his habits and habits. For example, I already know that it’s better not to approach my boyfriend for a mile after he comes home from work, about an hour. The best time to get something out of him is about half an hour after a good dinner. If I want to find out something from him, or I messed up somewhere, then I act according to the tamers method – first I will appease the predator, and only then I enter the cage. Make it so that the conversation about sex falls into the positive mood of your beloved.  

2. Start the conversation right

Guys do not understand hints, so do not try to enter from afar. But being too direct does not guarantee the desired result. There is one tricky move often used by marketers to introduce sex toys into your intimate life. An important nuance – hanging noodles on his ears, try to make an honest and naive face.

Tell the story of how you were searching the Internet for a recipe for some yummy to please, when you suddenly stumbled upon an advertising image depicting a happy girl. Underneath that picture was how to have an orgasm in five seconds. After following the link, you were taken to the site of a sex shop, a women’s magazine, or a pornography page, where you learned the truth.

Come up with a compelling story and end it with “I’d love to try this.” For the sake of persuasion, you can show him several videos on this topic. 

3. Doubts away

When discussing the permissibility of using toys for sex while you are intimate, you will surely find doubts on the part of your boyfriend. They can be expressed in words or in some actions. Your task is to convince him. Arguments like “Let’s try something new”, “You completely satisfy me, I’m just wondering”, “I’m ready for anything for you, and you?” Will work.  

4. Search the Internet together

Men are easier to perceive visually, so watching porn videos together will certainly help. There are many ways to diversify your sex life from modern pornographic videos. Select the “Sex Toys” section and enjoy watching in good quality. Your man will most likely enjoy the lesbian play videos.  

5. Browse the site of an online sex toy store

You should not visit the store of intimate goods as they say “live”. This will surely embarrass your lover very much. Being inside such an institution, a brutal stallion, as a rule, is greatly lost. And he tries to hide his confusion with idiotic jokes and inappropriate behavior. So you will get nothing but a spoiled mood.

A joint visit to an online store of intimate goods, the best solution, from which it can be useful. Consider the entire range , read the description, discuss what you would use and what is unacceptable for you. When choosing a vibrator (the most popular item in this area), take a ruler and match the size right away. It is not recommended for the first time to order a vibrator larger than the dignity of your man.  

6. Don’t beg

If your partner has a negative attitude towards any talk about sex toys, in any case, do not give ultimatums, do not beg or demand. Take a short week off and then try again . Let him know that you are serious. As if by accident, leave in the browser of his computer open pages of intimate goods stores or discussions of girls on the forums. 

7. Give him something like this

Everyone loves gifts. Give your man an intimate device like a masturbator. There are a great many varieties of such devices. I guarantee that your boyfriend will certainly appreciate this gift, as soon as possible, when left alone with him. And this will become for him a starting point in the world of sexual experiments. Or you can buy something more modest like a blindfold. You can use it together and it’s a great first step to something bigger.