The Internet is filled with special dating sites, with which you can get to know and chat with people without leaving your home. ICQ and numerous chats often become the place for … virtual sex. For many, this has become a great way to change your soul mate anonymously and without consequences.

The Internet is filled with special dating sites, with which you can get to know and chat with people without leaving your home. ICQ and numerous chats often become the place for … virtual sex. For many, this has become a great way to change your soul mate anonymously and without consequences.

Who needs this?

Take, for example, a young woman who is on parental leave. Her life becomes monotonous, relatively boring, because every day she repeats the previous one, especially if there is no way to get out somewhere with her husband, for example, there is nobody to leave a small child with. 

And now some kind of dating site comes to the rescue, where the questionnaire is started and the best photos are laid out, the fact of having a spouse, baby and a few extra centimeters at the waist is silent. After some time, some macho man appears who eagerly starts correspondence with her (when, of course, the spouse is not at home), starting with innocent questions, and gradually moving on to more relaxed conversations.

The interlocutors describe their alleged sexual actions in relation to each other. What is characteristic is that family people “sin” this. Let’s try to figure out why and for what purpose they do it. This happens differently for everyone. Someone simply receives satisfaction from such erotic correspondence, someone is really able to experience an orgasm from reading what was written by the interlocutor.

Virtual sex

Does your partner do this?

You may not be aware of this. But how can one be sure of this? And what should you do if you are aware of this? Watch your partner carefully.

The following symptoms exist : 

• Your partner spends more and more time on the Internet . Check out his list of visits. If you find links to porn sites, then this is the surest sign. But if your partner is well versed in computers and obscuring traces, then you will have to rely on your intuition and find a connection between his time on the Internet and what he usually does on the Internet.
• Your partner takes a defensive position when you ask what he or she did on the Internet . It can give short or evasive answers when you touch on this topic. Sometimes your discussion can turn into a quarrel.
• Your relationship is getting worse or not very good from the start. Sometimes a hobby for cyber pornography can lead to a deterioration in relationships, or, conversely, a lack of love or warmth in your relationship can provoke a hobby of a partner for cyber pornography.
• You feel that your partner is emotionally moving away from you and does not want to discuss your suspicions. 

This raises the question: is the passion for virtual sex a betrayal ? 

Is virtual sex cheating?

For what purpose does a married woman enter into such correspondence? From boredom, this is obvious. From the need to feel desired not only by her husband, partly from the opportunity to get sexual satisfaction .   

And psychologists advise to look into the past, pre-married life of a woman. They claim that in this way she is trying to “break out of the trap . ” A woman cannot, as once, leave someone who no longer satisfies her physically and spiritually; she is limited in her freedom by her spouse, child and position. 

Before marriage, she probably had a choice between young people. In addition, through such communication, a woman may well increase her self-esteem, which will have a very beneficial effect on family life . 

Virtual sex

Subconsciously, a woman who blames herself for her unattractiveness and chilling of her spouse, having bathed in a sea of ​​compliments and gentle, gentle words, even though read on the monitor screen, will gain self-confidence and transfer it already to the relationship with her husband . 

However, it seems that virtual sex is something between a betrayal and entertainment – we are thus saved from boredom, but at the same time we use words that speak only to our own family, and not to a person completely foreign to us.  

Statistics show that 32% of Russians said they did not consider virtual sex or online relationships to be treason. At the same time, 24% of respondents admitted that they were deceiving their real partner using dating sites.