Threesome sex looks beautiful only in porn. And I’m not talking about the moral aspect now, let’s pretend all the same that you have already agreed and this is not an issue. Just in practice, a man needs to squeeze, stroke, kiss, persuade, find an approach and try twice as much. If you face the truth, then some kind of action where the faithful is working on one of the young ladies, covered with sweat, and the second girl sits and reflects on what she did wrong in life, that she is now in such a situation – sheer pornography in relation to to taste. Many couples, having decided on an experiment, then quarrel and experience an abyss of awkwardness. And all because they do not know how to organize the process and think about the details. 
 

Before all began

When two people go to bed, even for the first time, it is normal and natural. Nature and instincts will tell them what, where and how. When there are three people, this is already a problem. Nature kind of shrugs its shoulders and tells you “dude, I didn’t sign up for that.” And this is logical, three people are not needed in the reproduction process. The first thing that a couple, both a guy and a girl, should understand is that in porn, where everything is so beautiful and perky, there is a whole team of people who expose the frame and write the script. 
 

In reality, threesome sex is completely different from movies and requires maximum concentration.

A man needs to solve a problem similar to starting a nuclear reactor: whose legs are they flashing, what to do with them, and with hands, and with me, and I caressed this one, and this one? And there are many more questions that require immediate answers. Of course, if we are talking about a man who is really interested in the experiment, and not just wants to hide behind him in order to change, it is very simple to understand: in the process you will understand that you can even solve a crossword puzzle – you will not distract these two from each other. 

Many guys still naively hope that they will have a lot of time for a break, because the ladies will be engaged in caresses and bisexual pleasures at this very moment. If you understand that lesbian fun is not yours, and you are initially cold to the charms of another girl, and do not want to make her cooney , pinch her nipples and kiss, then we have bad news for your partner. Namely – he will not have a respite. Or it can be called an awkward pause, where he nervously smokes, and you sit and, again, wonder why you got involved here. 
 

It is very easy to refuse threesome sex. No need to make scandals and blame everything on treason. Just hint that you are worried about how a partner is enough for two, if there is enough for one every other time.

And that’s all, finita, the curtain. Of course, the method is extreme, but, most likely, it will discourage the would-be lover from pornographic experiments for a long time.
 

Organization rules

If your male is unshakable, believes that he has no fewer hands than Shiva, and that there is enough erection for two girls, then, apparently, so be it. There are several important rules that, if not remove all the inconveniences, but at least reduce the likelihood of a fiasco.
 

1. Everything rests against you

If you are not ready, if you feel that this is contrary to your principles, then refuse immediately. The main mistake of girls in such a situation is to try to break themselves, to please someone and stifle morality. As a result, at the already crucial moment, you will understand that this is too much and you will better benefit from masturbation than from all this. If the guy is not ready to accept this, then in the future you will have even bigger problems, because there is no respect in the relationship. Here’s an old mother’s adage: if tomorrow Petya-Vasya-Kolya asks you to jump from the 11th floor, are you going to jump? 

2. You dictate the rules

Yes you are. After all, it is you who make a man just a royal gift (and not every girl agrees to have a threesome), but you could just score and live in peace. Therefore, it is you and only you who are the main organizer and thinker of the whole process. And if you don’t like something, then you have to choose: either this way or nothing.

3. Choosing a girl

This is a pretty important point. The most profitable when it comes to casual sex – they met her at a bar, slept and fled. Also, special sites for just such purposes fall under this category. And if your boyfriend insists that he only wants your girlfriend and no one else, then we are already talking about betrayal and secret sympathies. There are no questions, the girl should be pretty to you, but unfamiliar. Because then it will be infinitely awkward and strange.  

4. Time is money

Five minutes and bainki – this rule does not work in threesome sex. You do not need to swing at him if the guy cannot withstand at least two runs, and each, again, for at least 15-20 minutes. In general, each girl needs to be given attention and each one should be brought to orgasm, and this can be a problem even with one young lady.

5. Optimal timing

So that no one is offended, you need to adhere to the golden mean, namely, work on one lady for no more than 4 minutes. Naturally, no one holds the timer in their hands, here their own rhythms will save. The point of the whole venture is that the second girl does not get bored. Therefore, in the moment of sex with one, you need to constantly caress the other, touch her, pay attention to her. Tactile contact decides a lot. 

6. Discuss

If your partner is not ready to discuss the details, this also makes you think. Because success is guaranteed only with attention to all the details, without exception. Think about everything: from poses to location, from stoplights to deadlines. Otherwise, then it will really be both ashamed and strange.

7. No alcohol

It’s tempting to get drunk and feel liberated, but it’s not worth it. Fact – in men, all this in general can result in the reason for the lack of an erection. And it is better to control the process, your emotions and views, than not to understand what is happening at all.  

8. Change your poses

There really should be a lot of them. And, again, the rules and habits that apply to ordinary sex do not apply here. If you can imagine intercourse in a missionary position with a loved one, then how it is possible with two girls is a mystery. Only constant changing positions leads to orgasm and variety.

After sex

Okay, you and your boyfriend thought about everything, sex took place, everyone was happy. But then what? It turns out that when a couple escorts a girl and begins to live a normal life, you also need to think about what happened. An awkward silence ensues, the threesome turns into something like a souvenir from the mother-in-law – you can’t throw it away, but it’s stupid to put it on the shelf. Of course, each union has its own habits and principles. It is easier for someone to laugh it off, for someone – to always offer to repeat. But there is one golden rule – do not pretend that nothing happened. Your man can be bursting with what happened, moreover, he is not made of iron and he is trite to be afraid that he hurt you and was wrong somewhere, that you became isolated and your relationship is going to hell. If this is true, then this too needs to be discussed and rescued while it is still possible to be rescued. After all, you haven’t been playing cards all night just to brush it off. Otherwise, if experiments are needed for two, if they are interesting, then why not have threesome sex? The main thing is to think it over and spend some time on it, otherwise the results will be disastrous.