It is extremely important for men to feel superior in bed, even if in fact they are modest intellectuals and mothers’ sons. Any of them in sex dreams of becoming an unbridled macho and brutal male. What are the reasons for such needs , psychologists know.

Make an impression

Nature itself has decreed that women like “bad boys”. The image of a brutal in sex is always a win-win, since we give ourselves to strong partners who know how to subdue us with the greatest pleasure. It is from such men that we want children and are ready to obey, led by animal instincts. For these reasons, in order to make a proper impression on women, many representatives of the stronger half deliberately pose as bad guys in bed. 

Avoid boredom

If your partner was the same day in and day out in bed, wouldn’t you get bored? Let the man be romantic at heart, but gentle sex with long foreplay, for sure, would soon become boring! By taking the initiative and power into their own hands, partners try to avoid the destructive monotony in sexual relations and to introduce an element of surprise and non-standardness into the usual course of events.

Assert yourself

Today, women have achieved equality with men in everything: at work, at home, in sports and in relationships. The desire to take on a dominant role in bed for many of them is the only way to assert themselves and take over the primacy. Rough sex, coercion and impudence give them a sense of power and superiority that they lack in real life. By the way, women, as a rule, are not against such games, as they also want to relieve themselves of the burden of responsibility and feel weak and defenseless.

Imitate

Sometimes ostentatious brutality is a cover for a lack of experience in sex life. Men imitate cinematic macho images who treat women from a position of strength and superiority. In their understanding, this is exactly the image that ladies like, and often such a strategy really works.

Be yourself

In some cases, men release their natural insides and follow their inner instincts, not playing any roles, but only receiving and giving pleasure. Dominance is in their blood, and sex is the ideal way to fulfill their needs – physical and spiritual.
Whatever reasons move your man in bed, let him take the reins into his own hands. This is completely natural and acceptable to both of you. It is also useful for you to feel weak and vulnerable, and for a man this is another reason to assert himself and prove himself as a conqueror, predator and a real alpha male.