Imagine: intercourse lasts an average of 7 minutes, but an orgasm from 12 to 28 seconds. The best sex is when partners have a vivid orgasm. And how can this be achieved?
 

1. Selfishness
A prerequisite for getting an orgasm is full surrender, with a good amount of selfishness. It may sound contradictory, but it works 100%. According to research, for 47% of women under 30, it is very important to be perfect and look sexy in bed. Hey, women! It is impossible to simultaneously think about which position looks best for your chest or hairstyle, and completely surrender to the sensations. The bed is not a catwalk.

The reality is that we look truly sexy in the eyes of our partner when we surrender ourselves to love recklessly. If you don’t believe me, watch yourself in front of the mirror, when you are aroused, see how erotic you look, no worse than actresses in films. Admit it, you strive to get satisfaction from your own desire. And this is absolutely normal!
 

90% of men and women admit that at the moment of pleasure they stop thinking about anything!

2. Attitude
What is great when alone with yourself is often more difficult with a partner. After all, our body is not an automaton that responds to the press of a button. For sex to be good, we definitely need a partner. But we must want a partner from head to toe, no limits, no shame, immediately! And an environment that will create the right mood for us. Sometimes it is comfortably intimate, and sometimes it is indecently public.
 

52% of sex shop buyers are women!

3. Prelude
Various lovemaking and games will take you and your partner into the sea of ​​delights and teach you to trust each other more. 72% of men like to bring their beloved to ecstasy with their tongue. Did you think they weren’t interested in our pleasure? In vain! They feel that in such moments, the woman is completely in their power. Do not be afraid to show him that in addition to the tongue and lips, there are also fingers. Express your emotions, dissolve in waves of pleasure. A man will perceive such behavior as a compliment to his erotic talents.

Thank him with oral sex. Watch his reaction, so you understand what he likes best. If you are not afraid of experimentation, try fondling yourself in front of him. Many men are very turned on. Don’t believe me? Check popular queries on some video resources.
 

Studies have shown that only four factors can significantly increase the chance of reaching orgasm: partner scent, relaxed mood, hygiene, and clitoral stimulation.

4. A variety of positions
consent, no party posture, can not guarantee you 100% – Noah orgasm, no matter what wrote. And it’s not scary. But there are some positions in which you are much more likely to orgasm. Choose positions in which he does not enter very deeply so that he does not complete before you.

Cat pose. It’s a form of missionary position that increases clitoral stimulation, says sex researcher Nicole Prause . In fact, past research has shown that women who had difficulty reaching orgasm during the missionary position were more likely to orgasmic using this method. Start in a missionary position, but move your body up and down to one side. Move back and forth rather than up and down so that your partner can maintain direct contact with the clitoris. May pose. In this position, full contact between his pubic bone and your clitoris is just as important. Have your partner sit in a chair. You must sit on him and wrap your legs around his body. Then sit back a little. The partner should put his hands under your butt and stand up. This will help keep you on weight and control your pace. As a reminder, your clitoris should be firmly in contact with his body. Cicadas pose. You are lying on your stomach, hips are slightly apart, butt is slightly raised, put a pillow for this. The partner enters you, leaning on straight arms. In this pose, the pace should not be too slow. But, be careful, in this position a man can accidentally finish earlier, without waiting for you. Lotus flower. Lie on your back and bend your legs at the knees, lift your ass, leaning on your feet. Your partner may regret not playing sports for a long time, but all this is done for the sake of your orgasm. He should kneel with his back to you, spread his legs and enter. If you succeed, this is already a reason for pride. You should slowly lower your ass while your partner move forward. You can put your feet on the man. A shallow jerk will give both of you unexpected sensations. And don’t be upset if you didn’t succeed the first time. The main thing is to find something of your own. 

 

 

 
 

79% of men have nothing against a thorough foreplay. True, if at the same time they are indicated as much attention as they pay to their partner!

5. Timing
Another important component of good sex is timing. Only every third couple reaches an orgasm at the same time. Many lovers are fine with this, but if this is important to you, then there are a few tricks. Keep a pleasure diary for several months in a row. Write down when you were particularly sensitive to your partner’s petting, when your sexual tension was at its peak. Check your diary against your menstrual cycle. On the days of probable conception, it is easiest for a woman to experience an orgasm. Look at your watch. Scientific ideas about the best time to have sex do not fit well with the average person’s work schedule. Especially a lot of sex hormones enter the bloodstream at 8 am and 8 pm. Take a “sexy day off” from time to time to avoid spending the most sensitive hours of the day in front of your computer.
 

Every second man at least once, but imitated an orgasm!

All people express their feelings in different ways at the moment of the highest pleasure. Someone moans passionately, someone shouts or breathes loudly. During orgasm, we almost always make some kind of sound to relax the muscles of the chest. The motor response of men and women is different. Many men make movements similar to the continuation of frictions , then women wriggle, straighten, fall into a daze and even, at times, cry. A partner’s reaction can be surprising, but naturalness is the most exciting and at the same time the most touching thing that can be in sex.

And remember, the purpose of sex is not orgasm. The purpose of sex is to get to know each other, to dissolve in emotions. And an orgasm is a kind of icing on the cake.