Delayed ejaculation is a condition in which a man cannot reach an orgasm for a long time without special oral or manual stimulation. In some cases, the discharge does not occur at all. This problem is less common than premature ejaculation, however, gives the man more trouble. Normally, an orgasm occurs 4 to 10 minutes after the start of sexual intercourse (the norm is for the first time, subsequent intercourse may last longer). If it takes 25 – 30 minutes to achieve an orgasm, you can talk about slow (retardirovannoy) ejaculation.
THE REASONS
The causes of delayed ejaculation can be divided into two main groups.
Physiological. The causes of delayed ejaculation can be various inflammatory diseases: vesiculitis, urethritis, prostatitis, colliculitis, which can later lead to impotence in men. Also included in this group are operations on the pelvic organs and fractures of the pelvic bones. Delayed ejaculation may also appear during the development of diabetes mellitus, as a result of spinal cord injury.
Psychological. The cause of delayed ejaculation can be stress and fear of failure. The problem may arise when using the technique of interrupted sexual intercourse (the man is in constant tension, afraid to miss the right moment). Some men are afraid of unwanted pregnancy partner, some feel the psychological discomfort from the use of a condom, which can also cause a violation of ejaculation.
Other reasons. If delayed ejaculation is a one-off character, the reason may be that the partner’s vagina is too dry and strong friction prevents ejaculation. The problem can also occur as a result of excessive masturbation. The reason may be taking antidepressants and some other medicines, excessive consumption of alcoholic beverages. Cases of delayed ejaculation increase with age (after 30 years) and are due to age-related changes in the body.
TREATMENT
The choice of treatment for delayed ejaculation depends on its cause. Among the psychological methods can be called a special therapy to reduce anxiety, sexual learning. In many cases, Kegel exercises are used for men. Also, therapy with the use of drugs, which are prescribed by the results of the survey and after consulting a specialist, is common.