Is porn harmful or good for the body and love relationships? Often, expert opinions differ. So who should you believe?

Whenever a conversation about pornography comes up in a company, my friends fall into two opposing camps. Half do not see anything reprehensible in watching adult videos, and the rest of the comrades call for the removal of all obscene content and publicly burning it in the square.

Personally, I advocate for the recognition of porn as a special offshoot of the art. Why is this painting with vomit or menstrual blood considered the pinnacle of the Cultural Revolution, with a masterful blow job hidden under a black censorship square?

At the very least, porn should be classified as a specific sport. Have you ever wondered how many hours the actress spent on grueling workouts to fit three cocks in her anus at a time. Weightlifters and bodybuilders nervously smoke on the sidelines, the sum of their annual efforts in the hall bears no comparison with one day on the set.

Let’s leave demagoguery and turn to real facts. I will try to consider the issue from different angles, give arguments from both camps, spice them up with research results and, of course, put in my 5 kopecks. I turn on the alluring sign “Porn – harm or benefit” and invite you to visit our cinema for adults.
 

Pros of watching porn

Perhaps I’ll start with the non-shaded side of the coin, because good news always brightens up the negative impression of bad news.
 

1. Increase libido

It has been proven that each individual individual has a personal indicator of intimate activity. In other words, there are no two people with identical sexual temperaments. The benefit of porn for a couple is that, due to irritation of the visual centers, the less active partner has an increase in libido. If your spouse is cold in bed, then a video of specific content can melt the ice. A few sexual intercourses a month is enough for your soulmate, then when you need much more affection? Go to a porn site and play the video soon. 


 

2. Temporary replacement

There are situations in which erotica can become a worthy alternative to a living partner. For example, you broke up with your lover, and neither conscience nor self-esteem allows you to look for someone for one night to satisfy your carnal needs. Or your spouse is on a long business trip or has health problems that prevent sexual intercourse.

Abstinence is categorically contraindicated for women. Lack of sex provokes the appearance of gynecological diseases, up to cancers. Plus ” nedotrah ” negatively affects behavior. Girls become irritable, fall into depressive states.

As for the strong half of humanity, studies by Israeli scientists have shown that prolonged abstinence in men reduces the quality of sperm and leads to congestion in the pelvic organs. This provokes the appearance of prostatitis and impotence.  
 

3. Stirs up fantasy

Dr. Ethel Person, professor of clinical psychiatry at Columbia University, claims that erotic fantasies have a positive effect on intimate relationships. The partner begins to try on the images seen in porn on a loved one, thinks about him more often and, as a result, a hormonal cocktail responsible for love is poured into the body.

Boosting your brain activity isn’t just good for sex, it’s also useful in everyday life. People with a developed erotic fantasy are more creative and make responsible decisions faster.

4. Relieves stress and fights disease

The undoubted benefits of porn are closely related to the positive effects of orgasm on human health. Alvin Broderick in his book Sex, Game and Chocolate. Pleasures and addictions ”writes:
 

“Sex relieves stress, orgasm activates the immune system. In one study in Germany, a group of men were asked to masturbate in a laboratory setting. At the same time, scientists monitored the composition of the blood. After discharging, the subjects increased the concentration of leukocytes, which are responsible for the fight against viruses and other harmful organisms. “
 

Viewing pornography in 9 cases out of 10 ends in orgasm. In comparison, masturbation in the absence of arousal footage gives a 7 out of 10 chances of reaching the peak phase.
 

5. Eliminates prejudice

Please tell me how you can cultivate bigotry when you know a hundred ways to have fun. There are men who go crazy over women’s feet, girls who go into ecstasy from floggers and ropes. There are guys who prefer other guys and absolutely pink girls. The difference in tastes is great! I will not argue, some aspects of someone else’s sexuality cause mixed feelings. I am categorically against pedophilia, bestiality and forced sexual acts. The rest of the fantasies, created by mutual consent, are fully entitled to be realized. 

6. Encourages you to explore your sexuality

If they woke me up in the middle of the night and asked the question: “What does pornography lead to?” – I would not think too long about the answer. The strawberry stimulates healthy curiosity. Observing the actions of the actors, we involuntarily want to touch ourselves in the same places, experience the same emotions, and master similar techniques.

Without the motivation of porn videos, some couples would never realize that they enjoy anal sex. I prefer to act on the principle “you must first try, and then draw conclusions.” Erotica prompts new ideas and ways of getting pleasure. 
 

7. Extends life

Long-term studies have shown that the mortality rate in middle-aged men who experience an orgasm 2 times a week is 50% lower than that of those who receive a discharge only once a month.

And while the average homosapiens spends about 90 days of their life watching porn, the total benefits of orgasm more than cover the time. By masturbating 40 minutes a week, you postpone an appointment with a skinny old woman named Death.
 

8. Reduces the number of crimes

In 2007, Danish scientists made an interesting discovery. They surveyed six hundred men and women between the ages of 18 and 30. The study showed that subjects who view porn in moderation are more satisfied with their lives and more adequately relate to the opposite sex.

The conclusion suggests itself. Adult videos provide a gentle outlet for unusual or potentially harmful sexual desires. Instead of going outside, the criminals launch their browser.

Statistics compiled by Christopher Ferguson, professor of psychology and criminal law at the University of Texas, confirm the Danes’ opinion. Since the 60s of the last century (the beginning of the active distribution of porn), the number of rapes has decreased 40 times! My applause to the creators of the strawberry;)
 

9. Makes marriage stronger

Partners who while away the evenings watching tough erotica together are more willing to compromise and discuss relationship problems more often. They experience less sexual hunger, as they are able to bring each other to orgasm using various techniques. In such couples, there is no tension between the spouses associated with mistrust and understatement.

Cons of watching porn

1. Addictive

Previously, it was mistakenly believed that regular pornography viewing was synonymous with addiction. In 2011, sexologists from Montreal found that porn is not addictive, similar in nature to addiction to drugs or alcohol. Failure to stop watching adult videos is only possible if the person initially has a predisposition to mania.
 

2. It’s hard to get horny without porn.

The inability to get aroused without additional visual stimulus is characteristic of people with psychological problems and / or progressive erectile dysfunction, as well as when expectations and reality do not match. If a man focuses on certain sexual fantasies that are not realized in ordinary life, then problems with potency arise automatically. The same applies to libido activity in beautiful ladies. Let’s say a guy wholeheartedly wants to tie his mistress hand and foot, but she is afraid of BDSM and does not allow him to make his dream come true. Another typical example, a girl wants rimming , and her partner disdains. In such cases, you can’t do without thematic porn. 

 

3. Dullness of the senses

In my opinion, the harm of porn is to reduce erotic sensitivity. A hundred years ago, to excite the chosen one, it was enough to beautifully remove the glove. The direct accessibility of nudity makes modern girls come up with tricks for the sake of getting a steel erection from a partner.  

4. Sexual laziness appears

In strawberry, little screen time is devoted to foreplay and the process of flirting with a potential lover. Actresses always flow profusely, they do not need long kisses, pleasant words and foot massage. In adolescents, pornography creates misconceptions about the main stages of sexual intercourse. Later, these delusions migrate into adulthood.

Sexual laziness is when your partner doesn’t feel like putting in the effort to achieve orgasm. He can lie like a log, waiting for you to do everything for him. The lover is not interested in your pleasure. According to the logic of intimate sloths, if you do not have time to finish, then this is your problem.

5. Love = sex

Love becomes only a physical act, and in this the terrible harm of pornography is manifested. Previously, romantic manifestations of feelings played a leading role in relationships, now the state of affairs is somewhat different. Sex came to the fore. It is regrettable to state, but the guys are firmly convinced that the girl must surrender immediately after meeting. Porn brings the most vile selfish inclinations to the surface. A woman is considered frigid if she refuses to spread her legs. 

6. Shortens the duration of intercourse

Frequent masturbation “for the result” really shortens the duration of intercourse. When a guy gets used to unloading the clip in a minute, it is difficult for him to readjust and hold back ejaculation. However, if, when watching porn, you use special self-massage techniques designed to stretch pleasure, then in this way you can make an excellent lover out of the speed of fire . Visuals combined with reciprocating movements of the correct amplitude work wonders.

But from the point of view of men, a girl who ends quickly has no value. The average lady needs 15 to 30 minutes of continuous stimulation, while masturbating takes half as much.

7. Regular sex is considered boring.

I agree 100%. It is foolish to be content with the missionary position when there are 1,000 more untested variations. According to Canadian sexologists, couples looking at strawberries are less likely to have banal sex in the bedroom. But the total number of sexual intercourse they have is much higher than that of boring married men.

Research results do not contradict logic. Unchained people have sex in unusual places, arrange visiting sessions in hotels, and get out into nature. Menstruation, pregnancy do not become barriers to coitus.

Bottom line – porn won’t make you a nymphomaniac, a pervert, or an insatiable monster. It will expand your sexual horizons and that’s it.

8. The partner does not seem attractive

Well, this is a very controversial argument about the dangers of porn, coming from the lips of opponents of the strawberry. Let’s think logically. Your chosen one sees beautiful women with taut figures on the screen, and after the wedding you turned into a jelly-like substance in a tattered dressing gown. It is only natural that the spouse will find the actress more attractive.

Let’s take the opposite example. What self-respecting woman would prefer a bald, flabby dork who spends his evenings with beer in front of the TV over a pumped-up plumber from an adult movie? The term “bad, but your own” does not in any way affect the feeling of beauty.

You may have imperfections, minor flaws, but it is extremely important to keep yourself in shape. A little cellulite will not discourage your husband, but 30 extra pounds are quite capable of such meanness. Hairy breasts will not scare off a loving wife, but rotten teeth and bad breath …
 

9. Destroys relationships

Whoa , whoa , you don’t need to tell me that in the first part of this article I was proving to you that strawberries strengthen marriage. The harm from watching porn is manifested only in the case of clandestine acquaintance. I have a friend whose wife throws him notorious tantrums at the mention of adult videos. The capricious fifa sincerely believes that a cultured person should not get carried away with such muck. A comrade cannot resist the temptation, because, as you know, the forbidden fruit is unusually sweet. To avoid scandals, the guy carefully hides his interest in porn. He waits until the wife leaves the house, locked in the bedroom, closes the curtains and as a teenager under Blankets includes porn . Do you think this couple has a healthy relationship? Videos from the 18+ category take a significant place in the life of a modern person. The strawberry fanatical craze is really harmful. But the same can be said about overeating or any other excessive act. If you use porn in doses, it will benefit your sexuality.