Masturbation after sex. Why is this happening?

It is believed that people who have regular sexual partners should receive full satisfaction if sex occurs regularly. But is this really so? And why, then, some women and men masturbate immediately after sexual intercourse?

It turns out that there are many reasons why people masturbate after sex. They should be considered, having understood the nuances of this issue for men and women. 

Why do women masturbate after sex?

Having found a beloved for self-satisfaction after sexual intercourse, a man often completely loses confidence in himself. Indeed, at first glance it may seem that he is no good as a man, cannot satisfy his beloved. However, in reality it turns out that there are a lot of reasons for female masturbation . So, girls with developed sensuality can masturbate using hands or sex toys to continue enjoying. Even after receiving a discharge with a partner, they continue to engage in themselves to experience a few more orgasms. 

 . After all, knowing your body in detail, you can achieve very strong and varied sensations. Sometimes sensual girls even masturbate in front of a partner while he “takes a break”, which brings closer the moment when he can have sex again.

Other women really do not get full pleasure from sex or cannot get an orgasm in the process , and therefore satisfy themselves. However, this does not mean that they got a bad partner. After all, female sensuality is complex, and problems with orgasm can occur: 

  • due to complexes or constriction;
  • with a new partner;
  • due to the lack of foreplay in full;
  • due to the fact that the partner does not know the body and sensitive areas of the chosen one poorly.

In general, most of these problems can be solved even without contacting a sexologist. We need an open dialogue between partners , the ability to share feelings and feelings, to express wishes. If there is no such dialogue, the girl can hide the problem and satisfy herself on her own. 

Why do men masturbate?

Some men also pay a little attention personally to themselves after sex. This happens less often, but it does happen. And there are also reasons for this behavior.

For example, some men prefer to end their sex with masturbation, choosing this as a protection option . Not everyone is able to precisely control ejaculation, and in order to avoid a possible pregnancy of a partner, such men prefer to bring themselves to orgasm on their own. The tiredness of the partner, the feeling that she does not want to continue sex right now, can also encourage a man to self-satisfaction after intercourse. At the same time, he can well understand that a friend is tired, that she has many responsibilities, and do not bother her when she just wants to sleep. Therefore, you should not complex it on the fly, catching your husband for such things. After all, it is not at all necessary that he thinks about another or accumulates negativity from a shortage of sex. In other cases, the man removes the excitement in this way or seeks additional sensations . Like women, the reasons may be different. 

  

   

What to do if a partner masturbates after sex?

If it is noticed that the partner or partner is engaged in masturbation after intercourse, and there are doubts as to whether everything suits him in sex, you need to talk elementarily . After knowing the reasons for this, they can be eliminated. And you can turn masturbation into a bed game, do it together or in front of each other. After all, such things strengthen confidence and improve attitude, make sex brighter. If sex has become boring, the partner no longer likes it, you need to look for joint solutions and try new ones. Erotic costumes, sex toys, intimate cosmetics will help diversify pair games, will bring something new to the life of a couple. 

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